How to have a successful date with a Pro
Many clients are worried about getting scammed by escorts, because they assume the sex industry is disreputable. The media, our community, our leaders, our religions…they all say sex is bad, and sex for money is worse. When we’re told that everything to do with sex work is wrong, it seems logical to assume that everyone involved will end up getting hurt.
Here are a few ways to research your escort, avoid mishaps, and give yourself peace of mind:
- Check their ads, website, and ask for selfies. While you might worry that your escort won’t resemble their pics – seek out more information by following your worker on social media (if they have) or checking their website for a ‘selfie gallery.’ Seeing more images will give you realistic expectations of how they’ll appear in person.
- When enquiring, be honest about what you want. Some clients are so nervous about seeing a sex worker that they can’t bring themselves to ask for a specific service. Others get distracted during the booking process and forget to mention exactly what they have in mind. If you turn up to a session and your worker doesn’t provide what you wanted, there’s a chance you weren’t clear about it from the start.
- Pay for a social booking. If you’re considering a long encounter or a dinner date, short social outing can help you work out whether you get along and confirm that your escort will treat you kindly and respectfully. Of course, this is your escort’s professional time, and it must be paid for. But it’s a good investment, as it helps relieve anxiety before the big day.
Incall vs outcall – What’s the difference?
An ‘incall’ is an escort booking that involves visiting your worker. This might mean going to their apartment, or to the hotel room they’re staying in.
An ‘outcall’ is when the escort travels to meet you, wherever you may be – your home, your hotel, your holiday house…basically, if you’re the one travelling, it’s an incall, and if the escort comes to you, it’s an outcall.
Knowing the difference is crucial because not everyone offers both options. Different workers have different preferences. In some locations, incalls are prohibited by law and you’re the one who must make accommodation arrangements. Even if an escort does offer outcalls, the specifics are important: they might not visit private homes or might require four-to-five-star hotels.
Clean Is the New Sexy: The Art of Men’s Personal Hygiene”
Let’s be honest, gentlemen – confidence might start in the mind, but it’s sealed in the shower. Nothing says self-respect and sex appeal like a man who smells good, feels fresh, and keeps things meticulously clean where it matters most.
Grooming Down There
You don’t need to go full aesthetician, but trimming or shaping the jungle is a courtesy every partner appreciates. It’s not about vanity — it’s about comfort and cleanliness. Fewer tangles, less sweat buildup, and, frankly, better presentation.
Pro tip: after grooming, always moisturize the area with a lightweight, non-scented lotion to prevent irritation. You want to feel smooth — not inflamed.
The Finishing Touch
A spritz of good cologne is a signature move, but remember: the best scent is clean skin. When you step out of the shower, dry thoroughly, wear breathable fabrics, and keep a discreet pack of wipes for long days or late nights — it’s a small touch that separates the men from the boys.
Because Sexy Starts With Clean
In the end, personal hygiene isn’t just self-care — it’s foreplay. It’s about showing that you value yourself and your partner enough to bring your best self to the table (or wherever the evening takes you).
So, gentlemen, keep it fresh. Keep it confident. Because nothing — and we mean nothing — kills the mood faster than neglecting the basics.